Self-Help Speaker and Author Serving Those in Physically and NON-PHYSICALLY Abusive Relationships.
Physical abuse is real and tragic. But non-physical abuse happens just as much if not more and is often ignored because men and women who are victims suffer in silence. I LIVED the story. I wrote the book. I speak about it to men and women. I will help you.
Dr. E. Taylor Hodges - Los Angeles, CA
We have been married for 35 years, dying together rather than living together. Counseling was not working. I listened to your web site excerpts and ordered your book and several CDs of prayer. The peace that came over me was unbelievable! There was no physical abuse, but we were both emotionally and verbally abusing each other. My wife and I agreed to separate and divorce. To some that may seem like failure, but we have grown more by being apart and are friends again.
Dr. Patrice Moren, Psychiatrist - Miami, FL
You saved a life. I purchased your book for my client who was in an abusive relationship. She was afraid to leave her husband and (unknown to me) decided after our session that day to commit suicide. She took the time to read your book first then called and said if you could go through what you did and win, she could do the same thing. She Had No Choice but to try. She left her husband, found a job, filed for divorce, is leaving the state, but most of all, she is no longer afraid. Dorma, because you told your story, honestly, you saved a daughter, mother, sister, and very good friend to many. Thank you for your courage in candidly telling your story.
| Mental abuse | ‘You are no good. You are nothing.’ |
| ‘You are so stupid. My dog has more brains than you.’ | |
| Verbal abuse | ‘I should beat you.’ |
| ‘I should poison you.’ | |
| Emotional abuse | ‘I don’t love you. I only said what you wanted to hear to get what I wanted and you fell for it.’ |
| ‘My last partner did it like this. You can’t do anything right. I should go back to them.’ | |
| Financial abuse | ‘You owe me the money you make. You better give it to me or you better not come home.’ |
| ‘If you didn’t waste your money on yourself, you would have more to give me. I need it and you have it.’ | |
| Sexual abuse | ‘No. I won’t have sex with you. You don’t know how to do it right anyway. ‘ |
| ’You better do it, and you better do everything I say.’ | |
| Physical abuse | Pushing, hitting, slapping, kicking, shooting, stabbing, any violent contact. |
These are things I have either personally lived through, heard or witnessed men and women say.
When I speak, I reach out to my audience and become part of you because I have been there.
I was there because of my parents arguing and fighting when I was growing up.
I was there with bosses abusing me at work.
I was there when I became involved in abusive relationships after I became an adult. For many years in many relationships, I did not know I was being abused because I was never hit. But the mental, sexual, financial, verbal and emotional abuses were just as, if not more painful.
I tell you more than you don’t have to take it anymore. I say more than get out of it.
There is a basic reason why we take this kind of treatment. On one level it is quite deep. On another level it is superficial. When you read the book, you are left with a renewed understanding of how not to let this happen again.
I show you how to have the courage to do what you have possibly never done before.
I unlock the mystery of your power to walk where you may have never walked before.
I share with you the ability to do the one thing that we find impossible that will save our lives.
There are a variety of products here that have saved lives, including mine. But all of them are offered to you for one of three reasons.
- To show you the signs so you don’t get involved in any kind of abusive relationship.
- To stop it from happening if you are already in an abusive relationship.
- The simple secret that is the hardest to master to never return to an abusive relationship.
I Had No Choice
I Broke The Rules.
Experts, including marketing specialists that I paid very well, said I could only sell one product from one web site. You and I have proven them wrong. Everyone came looking for something, however, 88% of you bought additional products. My strength, self-love, courage, hope, power and self-esteem were restored through the products and information on this site and I am sure you will find something that will do the same for you.
My mission is to give you all the tools you need to restore strength, help or hope that life has stripped from you. My 20 year commitment to you remains the same. Not so much motivation, but motive – action. You will become encouraged through the products here to take action to get from where you are, to where you want to be.
“I came to your web site to buy your book, ‘I Had No Choice’ because I am a victim of abuse and working hard to get my life back after my suffering. I finished the book in one day. I needed help for my terminally ill father. Never did I expect to find everything all in one place. I ordered Prayer CDs and the oil package. Daddy is better. I am better and my whole family has come to visit, listen, read and purchase.”
Marlene Hutchins, Phoenix, AZ
I buried myself in writing, which brought the book, I Had No Choice to life. I became more involved in spiritual (not religious) time with myself, which birthed non-denominational Prayers on CD. I discovered my faith weakening and the anointing oil package was created. I still have pain. I still have problems, but they no longer have me.
Eighteen years in birthing, I had to tell my story. I spent many nights at the computer crying as I pulled out what was hidden to help you and me. People are shocked to discover is the suffering that I silently endured – starting as a child. Men, women, children, families, pastors, counselors, teachers, students, have all said they see themselves in the book. It is a source of help, strength, courage, but most of all hope. I Had No Choice details my realization that choices make the difference. Read an excerpt and buy my story, click here.
“I am a counselor but sadly, an abuse victim. Your book opened my eyes and my heart to love and be true to myself. Like you, mine was not the typical (if there is such a thing) abuse. Through your book, and Prayers on CD, I found myself and I found peace. You have helped many. Thank you for coming to speak to the members of my group therapy session, and our national conference.
Dennis Hartley, Ph.D., Hartford, CT
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Thank you for coming and I look forward to your next visit.